This is one of the best videos you’ll watch on this topic. I disagree with her comment about this being about internalizing misogyny, but there are excellent points here that should not be missed. Her distress at this absurdity is real.
I encourage you to watch it, learn from it, and share it. (I originally posted this in the forum on August 23, 2022 at 7:40 pm, but it’s too good to back post so I’m putting it at the top.)